How many times have you slept with an ex girlfriend? Probably more than once. But do you really know how you did it?
Rather than relying on bad luck, if you still want to have sex with your ex, the following methods show you EXACTLY what will make her fall back on your bed.
But first, why do you want to sleep with your ex?
Are you still trying to get it back? Or are you just looking for one last night, let’s call it an extra night, of crazy, uninhibited sex?
Anyway, the approach remains the same.
Getting an ex-girlfriend to sleep with you can be accomplished using some pretty universal techniques. These are methods that work for both situations, whether you want a relationship with her again or just a “friends with benefits” arrangement.
Sex with an ex girlfriend is not only possible, it is actually easier than you think. Then let’s get started.
Recreating your girlfriend’s original attraction to you
Remember those first few weeks when your ex couldn’t keep her hands off you?
All those great sexual encounters … every night wrapped in each other’s arms, where neither of them wanted to leave, and where no matter how much sex they had, the two of them just couldn’t get enough of each other?
Well, this golden “honeymoon” phase of the relationship is pretty much the same for everyone. Everything is new and everything is exciting. They are still exploring the interests of others, their likes and dislikes, and yes, those things extend to the bedroom as well.
At first, the sex is hot because you both want to impress each other. Your girlfriend was probably open to a lot of things that later in the relationship turned into things you had to mention or even ask for. But at the beginning? You only took those things. Or maybe she offered them to you, freely and without hesitation, because she was just as lustful and eager to impress as you are.
So … get your ex to love you again? It’s about DESIRE. You have to become as desirable as you were in the early stages of your relationship, and I’m not just talking about the physical.
Setting the stage to make her want you again
One of the best ways to get your ex girlfriend back to bed with you is the “buddy” approach. With this method, you want to appear as if you want to be friends with your ex and nothing more.
Yes, I know you actually DO want more, but for now, you’ll have to put that aside. The way to get back to bed with her is through friendship, because your ex is not going to go out with you if he thinks you are still sweating from the breakup.
Tell her that you love her? BIG MISTAKE. Tell her that you still love her? Your ex will not approach you with a 10 foot pole. What has to happen first, first of all, is that you have to fully agree with the breakup.
Tell him that the breakup is a “good idea.” Tell him that you totally agree with that. Laugh at that. Eliminate the fact that you couldn’t get along.
- “Yeah wow, sorry about the end of our relationship. I really messed it up! (Laugh here) You know the good part? That we’re better off as friends than girlfriend and boyfriend. I’m glad. We finally figured that out, earlier. that we resented each other and began to hate each other. “
The thing here is that you just put yourself on your girlfriend’s TEAM. You have aligned yourself with their interests.
You are in it side now.
Your girlfriend now sees you as someone she can trust. He is no longer concerned that you will try to get it back. She is no longer suspicious of your motives, because not only have you accepted the end of the relationship, but you are actually signaling how much you agree with him.
Friends With Benefits: How To Have Sex With Your Ex
Now at this point you have to do something else; make yourself desirable again. And you do it with three things:
1) Start dating other girls again
This, more than anything else you can do, will make your ex instantly reevaluate you as a couple. And not only as a boyfriend, but also as a potential sexual partner.
Dating other girls shows your ex that you are desirable. You are a commodity that you once had and threw away, but suddenly someone else is now interested in it.
Don’t worry about getting serious, all you need is a few dates. They can be fun dates, wild dates, they can be with girls that you would potentially love to date or with girls / friends from work that you just have a good time with. Whatever happens, have fun. Because when your ex sees you enjoying yourself with other girls, he’ll remember when she had fun with you.
2) Get active and find new hobbies
A guy who is interested in things is always interesting. So get out there. Start a new hobby or choose an old one. Join a hockey or softball team. Get active and happy, so that when your ex sees you doing this, they immediately start wondering why they are missing out.
Self-actualization is a powerful aphrodisiac. When a guy motivates himself and can have fun for himself, a girl will be drawn to him for those things.
3) Start hanging out with friends and enjoying your single life
Nobody likes to be left behind. So when you’re running around and having fun with your friends, all without your ex-girlfriend on your arm? He will wonder if maybe he was holding you back.
One thing all women hate is being wrong. When are you out and about, having a good time, hanging out with other people, and doing new things? Your ex’s opinion of you will change. She will see you attractive again. High value. Suddenly, you are an amazing guy who seems to have completely moved on. And hey, why the hell did he leave you in the first place?