A man’s arousal isn’t just about the penis. Okay, it’s mostly about the penis, but there are also many other factors that make the big boy and his little friend anxious with anticipation. The male sex drive is a very complex thing that has many different trigger points, the right kind of stimulation for your eyes, ears or mind can create a situation that leaves you “in a hurry” not to act in the moment. Let’s look at some of these triggers and how they can be used to create a satisfying experience for both of you.
If you think that you have to physically touch a man to sexually arouse him, you are very wrong; There are many other effective ways to achieve this. She just seductively purrs his name to let him know that the pumpkin pie you’ve been baking for him in a wet white T-shirt is ready for him after he finishes his donut swamp.
One of the best ways to start the process of developing a man’s desire is to tell him that he can look but not touch for a set period of time. Like when we were young and we were told not to touch the cookie jar, we want most of the things that we can’t have. Tell your man not to touch you for an entire day and he will be overwhelmed with frustration at not being able to. For a man, frustration is most often expressed below the belt.
Put on a show
Granted, this one is more controversial than anything else and requires the help of a VERY close friend. Men are very fantasy-based creatures. If you’re out and about and want a guy ripping roaring and ready to lean over to your girlfriend and give her a peck on the bill, acting seductive and “playful” with another woman will have a guy hard in no time. Even if the idea of ”group fun” doesn’t work for either of you, you do things in your mind that will definitely do things in your pants.
Be yourself, with yourself
A demonstrative sex act in front of a guy is one of the 100% guaranteed ways to get him going fast and strong. Rubbing your breasts or crotch while looking at him will give you the hint that you are ready for the fun to begin. For a guy, that’s all he needs to know and he will soon follow.
You saw the part
Wearing outfits that are seductive but not too revealing, this leads you to want to see what is not shown. Men are creatures of fantasy and imagination. The idea of what you don’t see will drive you crazy. In another take on this, wearing outfits that almost suggest a fantasy will accomplish the same thing, that is, for a French maid fantasy, wear a simple short black dress with white trim, with hair tied back, and a feather tote bag. You will get the intention, I promise.
A picture is worth a thousand words
Men are very visual creatures. Men appreciate the beauty of a woman’s body, whether the image is explicit or not. For most men it is the idea of what is not seen that awakens more than what is seen. If your guy is having a bad day at work, a near X-rated photo sent to him can make his coming home more enjoyable for both of you.
The way to a man’s heart …
It is often thought that the path to a man’s heart passes through his stomach. It turns out that there has been scientific research that can support this saying. Scientists studying men’s taste and smell sensations found that the smell of pumpkin pie dramatically increased blood flow to male sex organs. Donuts came in with the second largest increase in blood flow, while surprisingly women’s perfumes, and simulated vaginal scents only prompted a 3 percent increase in blood flow.
Tell him what you want, what you really, really want!
A lewd description of his favorite sexual fantasy will have him doing the best Washington Monument impression in no time. Can’t you see your man in person? No problem. Pick up the phone and you can do the same. An added excitement is the anticipation of having to wait for you.